I am a Teenage Feminist
  1. waltdisneyconfessions:

“I think the people hoping for a lesbian princess need to be reminded that Disney movies are aimed at kids. I don’t think there is anything wrong with being gay, but to push the idea at kids before they understand what that means will only confuse them. Also as a parent, I would be pissed at Disney for addressing such controversial topics in a movie intended for children”.



But here’s what you’re forgetting/not understanding: 
Being gay isn’t controversial 
It isn’t. The fact that a person is gay is not controversial. The only thing controversial is how people feel we should treat gay people. 
There a millions of kids growing up right now that have gay parents, teachers, grandparents, aunts, and uncles. There are many kids in this country who are growing up and are gay themselves. All of those kids don’t get a chance to see their reality in media. 
We “push” the idea of heterosexuality everyday and in every Disney movie. If we had a gay prince or princess we wouldn’t be “pushing” anything, we would just be displaying a different reality that many people have. 
I hate it when people say that “being gay” is controversial. No, it’s not. How we, as a society, want to treat gay people is what is controversial.   

    waltdisneyconfessions:

    I think the people hoping for a lesbian princess need to be reminded that Disney movies are aimed at kids. I don’t think there is anything wrong with being gay, but to push the idea at kids before they understand what that means will only confuse them. Also as a parent, I would be pissed at Disney for addressing such controversial topics in a movie intended for children”.

    But here’s what you’re forgetting/not understanding: 

    Being gay isn’t controversial 

    It isn’t. The fact that a person is gay is not controversial. The only thing controversial is how people feel we should treat gay people. 

    There a millions of kids growing up right now that have gay parents, teachers, grandparents, aunts, and uncles. There are many kids in this country who are growing up and are gay themselves. All of those kids don’t get a chance to see their reality in media. 

    We “push” the idea of heterosexuality everyday and in every Disney movie. If we had a gay prince or princess we wouldn’t be “pushing” anything, we would just be displaying a different reality that many people have. 

    I hate it when people say that “being gay” is controversial. No, it’s not. How we, as a society, want to treat gay people is what is controversial.   

  2. Woke up to these gems on my facebook newsfeed this morning. 

    Apparently, it’s quite funny to “hack” into your male friend’s facebook page and write a status about how he “likes boy” or “is gay” or the equivalent. 

    Because you know, there is nothing more humiliating than being gay.  

    What bothers me even more about these two statuses is that I personally know the guy in the top one, and he is a pretty progressive dude. The people who commented on it are too, but they obviously don’t see anything wrong with his status or what they’re saying.

    Which means although they say they support gay rights, they obviously still holding being gay to a lesser value than being straight. An attitude which is used to justify prejudice and discrimination against LGB people. These people seem to talk the talk, but can’t walk the walk. 

    Oh, and I almost forgot to add, that second one I’m pretty sure is racist, as well. 

  3. Analyzing these magazine articles about lesbianism in the 1970s is super interesting

    I’ve noticed a couple of common themes…

    In feminist magazines and articles written by self-identified lesbians the notion that being “queer” is a political act that anyone can be regardless of sexual orientation comes up quite a bit. As one feminist-lesbian writes:

    “heterosexuality goes hand in hand with the sexist assumption that each women exists for each man- her body, her children, and her services are his property. If a woman does not accept this definition of heterosexuality she is queer, regardless of who she sleeps with.”

    I found this interesting because it is the exact opposite of how we define “queer” today. Today the word “queer” is used to describe someone who is oppressed due to their sexual or gender orientation. Using it for other purposes, such as to describe someone who’s political inclinations fall in-line with a rejection of a heterosexist society (like me) is considered offensive. 

    The other thing I’ve noticed is that even before the APA took lesbianism off the book as a mental illness, it was widely accepted and taken for granted that  young women would have feelings for other women. In an advice column from Seventeen Magazine in 1968 the advice-giver advises a young women who is afraid she might be a lesbian

    “Not to worry, many girls your age experience attraction to other girls. The more you begin to accept yourself as a young woman, boys and dates will become more enjoyable”.

    This is a far cry from the demonizing of same-sex feelings that I thought I was going to find in these magazine articles from before 1973. 

  4. An “Is My Son Gay?” Android App Exists

    tyleroakley:

    The App includes the following questions: 

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    Seriously? 

    There isn’t much more I can say that Tyler hasn’t put so beautifully. 

  5. pantswithstripes:

piinboots:

starcrossedlions:

sirproperlydecapitated-podmore:

ampersandand:

wantmeback:

A selection of ~lady love~ movies - but with an exception. No movies with the oh-so-popular trope of psycho lesbians. So you can enjoy these without having to worry about anyone going mad from lesbianism!
Subtitled movies can be played in VLC player. You’ll need HJ Split for joining Fingersmith. Enjoy!
- Bound  - But I’m A Cheerleader  - D.E.B.S  - Fingersmith 1 2 3 - Fire/फायर (Subtitles)  - Gia  - I Can’t Think Straight  - Imagine Me & You  - Mulholland Dr.  - Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit  - RENT - Room In Rome/Habitación en Roma (Subtitles)  - Saving Face (Subtitles)  - The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister  - Show Me Love/Fucking Åmål (Subtitles)  - Spider Lilies/Ci qing (Subtitles)  - Tipping the Velvet 1 2 3  - When Night Is Falling - Water Lilies/Naissance des pieuvres (Subtitles) 

relevent to my interests

IS IT CHRISTMAS

IS IT HANNUKAH

IS IT DIWALI? 

Holy mother of vaginas

    pantswithstripes:

    piinboots:

    starcrossedlions:

    sirproperlydecapitated-podmore:

    ampersandand:

    wantmeback:

    A selection of ~lady love~ movies - but with an exception. No movies with the oh-so-popular trope of psycho lesbians. So you can enjoy these without having to worry about anyone going mad from lesbianism!

    Subtitled movies can be played in VLC player. You’ll need HJ Split for joining Fingersmith. Enjoy!

    - Bound 
    -
    But I’m A Cheerleader 
    -
    D.E.B.S 
    -
    Fingersmith 1 2 3
    -
    Fire/फायर (Subtitles
    -
    Gia 
    -
    I Can’t Think Straight 
    - Imagine Me & You 
    -
    Mulholland Dr. 
    -
    Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit 
    -
    RENT
    -
    Room In Rome/Habitación en Roma (Subtitles
    -
    Saving Face (Subtitles
    -
    The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister 
    -
    Show Me Love/Fucking Åmål (Subtitles
    - Spider Lilies/Ci qing (Subtitles
    -
    Tipping the Velvet 1 2 3 
    -
    When Night Is Falling
    -
    Water Lilies/Naissance des pieuvres (Subtitles)

    relevent to my interests

    IS IT CHRISTMAS

    IS IT HANNUKAH

    IS IT DIWALI? 

    Holy mother of vaginas

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